Strong Passions: A Scandalous Divorce in Old New York

Strong Passions: A Scandalous Divorce in Old New York

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  • Author:Barbara Weisberg
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Summary

Shocking revelations of a wife’s adultery explode in an incendiary nineteenth-century trial, exposing upper-crust New York society and its secrets。

What could possibly go wrong in a wealthy matriarch’s country home when her dilettante son, his restless wife, and his widowed brother live there together? Strong Passions, rooted in the beguiling times of Edith Wharton’s “old New York,” recounts the true story of a tumultuous marriage。 In 1862, Mary Strong stunned her husband, Peter, by confessing to a two-year affair with his brother。 Peter sued Mary for divorce for adultery—the only grounds in New York—but not before she accused him of forcing her into an abortion and having his own affair with the abortionist。 She then kidnapped their young daughter and disappeared。

The divorce trial Strong v。 Strong riveted the nation during the final throes and aftermath of the Civil War, offering a shocking glimpse into the private world of New York’s powerful and privileged elite。 Barbara Weisberg presents the chaotic courtroom and panoply of witnesses—governess, housekeeper, private detective, sisters-in-law, and many others—who provided contradictory and often salacious testimony。 She then asks us to be the jury, deciding each spouse’s guilt and the possibility of a just resolution。

Social history at its most intimate, Strong Passions charts a trial’s twists and turns to portray a family and country in turmoil as they faced conflicts over women’s changing roles, male custody of children, and men’s power—financial and otherwise—over wives。

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PennsyLady (Bev)

Strong Passions: A Scandalous Divorce in Old New Yorkrecounts the tumultuous marriage of Peter and Mary Strong and the legal and personal aspects of pursuing divorce in upper crust New York, 1862。If you check the acknowledgments, notes and bibliography, you willrealize it is far more than a cursory biographical sketch of divorce in "old New York"。It is quite intense reading and would definitely appeal to those interested in New York history。"Weisberg uses a scandalous divorce to illuminate tensi Strong Passions: A Scandalous Divorce in Old New Yorkrecounts the tumultuous marriage of Peter and Mary Strong and the legal and personal aspects of pursuing divorce in upper crust New York, 1862。If you check the acknowledgments, notes and bibliography, you willrealize it is far more than a cursory biographical sketch of divorce in "old New York"。It is quite intense reading and would definitely appeal to those interested in New York history。"Weisberg uses a scandalous divorce to illuminate tensions surrounding marriage, gender, and sexuality in Edith Wharton's upper-class New York City。" (Clifton Hood)I would not suggest this biography to those looking for a light read。It can definitely be appreciated by someone looking for in-depth period material。 。。。more

Anke

Divorces can be messy。 STRONG PASSIONS by Barbara Weisberg follows the story of the divorce battle between Mary and Peter Strong, offering an interesting look into married life and divorce in the late 1800s。 In the first half, the author provides the perfect amount of background history on the couple and their families to give an understanding of important relationships。 The second half reads like the transcript of the Strongs' divorce trial。Mary Stevens and Peter Strong were born to privilege i Divorces can be messy。 STRONG PASSIONS by Barbara Weisberg follows the story of the divorce battle between Mary and Peter Strong, offering an interesting look into married life and divorce in the late 1800s。 In the first half, the author provides the perfect amount of background history on the couple and their families to give an understanding of important relationships。 The second half reads like the transcript of the Strongs' divorce trial。Mary Stevens and Peter Strong were born to privilege in New York。 Mary was raised in a home with a puritanical atmosphere but slightly veered from the ideal of a passive, perfectly genteel young lady。 Peter enjoyed the life of leisure of a well-to-do gentleman, the occupation of choice for many young men of his class, with his law degree from Columbia sitting on a shelf, unused。 After marrying, Mary ceased legally to exist, and her desire for a dwelling of her own would never be realized: the couple lived at the Strong family estate in Queens, New York, under the thumb of Peter's mother。 Peter, leading a free-wheeling carefree life on his mother's dime, often left Mary to fend for herself, providing no emotional support even during her miscarriages。 Mamie and Allie, Mary’s children, were her joy。 Edward, Peter’s widowed brother, was living in the bedroom across the hall from Mary and Peter。The Strong v Strong Divorce Trial opened on November 23, 1865, lasted for five weeks and captivated the nation。 Only seven months after Abraham Lincoln's assassination, the case provided a war-torn country with a shocking distraction and an unusual glimpse into the private world of New York's powerful and privileged elite。 Peter and Mary each accused the other of adultery, requested a divorce, and asked for custody of the children。 The freedom to legally remarry depended on obtaining a divorce decree, at least for the party judged innocent。 The guilty party generally was barred from remarrying during the innocent party's lifetime。 Peter demanded full custody of his daughters considering it to be his traditional paternal right。 Mary having a will few could withstand, ran off with younger daughter, Allie, at the start of the trial。Strong Passions reads like a novel, although it is a true story。 The author makes the ins and outs of the late 1800s justice system (regarding divorce) in New York understandable。 The obvious bias against women is an integral part of this story。 Thank you WW Norton & Company and BookBrowse for the print ARC in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more

Brendan Dowd (History Nerds United)

Divorces can be messy。 Unfortunately, books about them can also be messy。Strong Passions by Barbara Weisberg is a book about missed opportunities。 It follows the story of the divorce battle between Mary and Peter Strong。 You see, Mary decided to go and and sleep with Peter's brother。 Peter sued for divorce and Mary accused him of forcing her to have an abortion and that he was having an affair with an abortionist。Oh, are you mad at me for not posting a spoiler warning? Well, don't be。 All of the Divorces can be messy。 Unfortunately, books about them can also be messy。Strong Passions by Barbara Weisberg is a book about missed opportunities。 It follows the story of the divorce battle between Mary and Peter Strong。 You see, Mary decided to go and and sleep with Peter's brother。 Peter sued for divorce and Mary accused him of forcing her to have an abortion and that he was having an affair with an abortionist。Oh, are you mad at me for not posting a spoiler warning? Well, don't be。 All of these facts are contained in the description of the book and then brought up again very early in the narrative。 It is maddening。 There are many twists and turns in the story which are given away almost immediately by the author。 It's fatal to any sense of shock in the book。 It also means that when you actually get to the courtroom scenes there is no suspense。 It becomes lawyers arguing about things you already know。 The repetition makes the book drag badly。 Also, with historical true crime, the author needs to immerse the reader in the world as it was during the time period。 Weisberg actually does a very good job until she goes overboard。 As a reader, I thought she did some excellent world building but then didn't stop。 It's a shame because Weisberg can write well, but those skills cannot overcome the bad storytelling choices。Finally, what pieces of work the Strongs were。 Whomever you believe, you don't feel good about it。 By the time I was done, I felt like it was best we forgot about Mary and Peter as soon as possible。(This book was provided as an advance copy by Netgalley and W。 W。 Norton and Company。) 。。。more

SkipO

Interesting read for New York history readers。Thanks to GoodReads for the freebie!

Beverly

An excellent read。 Sometimes non-fiction can be very dry; Strong Passions read like a novel , although definitely a true story。 The author made the ins and outs of the early 20th century "justice" system (regarding divorce) in New York understandable。 The obvious bias against women is an integral part of this story。 This would be an great choice for book clubs。 Discussions would be ENDLESS ! An excellent read。 Sometimes non-fiction can be very dry; Strong Passions read like a novel , although definitely a true story。 The author made the ins and outs of the early 20th century "justice" system (regarding divorce) in New York understandable。 The obvious bias against women is an integral part of this story。 This would be an great choice for book clubs。 Discussions would be ENDLESS ! 。。。more

Fran

One wore blue, one wore gray。 The Civil War had divided the country。 The Strong v Strong Divorce Trial opened on November 23, 1865, lasted for five weeks and captivated the nation。 "Seven months after Abraham Lincoln's assassination, the case provided a war-torn country with a shocking distraction and an unusual glimpse into the private world of New York's powerful and privileged elite。" "The elite nature of the embattled parties, the accusations of adultery, abortion, and child abduction made f One wore blue, one wore gray。 The Civil War had divided the country。 The Strong v Strong Divorce Trial opened on November 23, 1865, lasted for five weeks and captivated the nation。 "Seven months after Abraham Lincoln's assassination, the case provided a war-torn country with a shocking distraction and an unusual glimpse into the private world of New York's powerful and privileged elite。" "The elite nature of the embattled parties, the accusations of adultery, abortion, and child abduction made for multiple headlines and the public's voyeuristic fascination。""Ideally matched" storybook couple, Mary Stevens and Peter Strong were born to privilege in New York。 Mary was raised in a home with a "high-toned puritanical atmosphere" however, she "veered slightly from the nineteenth century ideal of the passive, perfectly genteel young lady。" Peter "enjoyed the life of leisure of a well-to-do gentleman, the occupation of choice for many young men of his class。" His law degree from Columbia sat on a shelf, unused。 After marrying, Mary ceased "legally to exist"。。。A married woman's identity was 'covered' or subsumed by her husbands。。。the domestic realm。。。was 'defined a separate sphere' from the heady public, political, and economic sphere of a man。" Mary's desire for a dwelling of her own would never be realized。 The couple lived at the Strong family estate in Queens, New York, under the thumb of Peter's mother。 Peter, leading a free-wheeling carefree life on his mother's dime, often left Mary to fend for herself。 No emotional support was provided even during her several miscarriages。 Her joy was their two children, Mamie and Allie。 The bedroom across the hall from Mary's was occupied by Peter's brother, Edward who was recently widowed。Strong v Strong was portrayed by the press as a cross suit: "Peter and Mary each accused the other of adultery, requested a divorce, and asked for custody of the children。" "The freedom to legally remarry depended on obtaining a divorce decree, at least for the party judged innocent。 The guilty party generally was barred from remarrying during the innocent party's lifetime。" Peter demanded full custody of his daughters considering it to be "his traditional paternal right。" Mary having a "will few could withstand" disappeared with younger daughter, Allie。Strong v Strong。 Reliable v unreliable (perhaps paid-off) witnesses。 Evidence v hearsay。 She said, he said。 Author Barbara Weisberg presents a well researched, documented case of a salacious divorce in Old New York。 Highly recommended。Thank you W。W。 Norton and BookBrowse for the print ARC in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more

Mariga Temple-West

A woman from an upper-class old New York family has an affair with her husband's brother。 As the scandal unfolds during the 1860's, we are given a fascinating insight into the role of women at that time: the more upper-class you are, properly married, demure and modest, you are naturally of good character。 An immigrant? Uneducated? Suspect morals? Forget about it。 This dichotomy is put on stark display during the divorce trial of Peter and Mary Strong。One takeaway from this book, god help a woma A woman from an upper-class old New York family has an affair with her husband's brother。 As the scandal unfolds during the 1860's, we are given a fascinating insight into the role of women at that time: the more upper-class you are, properly married, demure and modest, you are naturally of good character。 An immigrant? Uneducated? Suspect morals? Forget about it。 This dichotomy is put on stark display during the divorce trial of Peter and Mary Strong。One takeaway from this book, god help a woman who strays outside the boundaries。 A husband could take her children, and even if a divorce could be obtained (an enormously difficult undertaking in the 1860's), if the woman is found at fault, she cannot remarry after divorce as long as her husband still lives。 The punishment of "fallen" women was unrelenting。The first half of this book was really good。 The second half was little more than the transcript of the Strongs' divorce trail。 By the time the author got back to the story, I just wanted the book to be finished。 。。。more

Rachel

I particularly enjoy books about the 1800s and early 1900s so I was very excited to read STRONG PASSIONS。 This was an interesting look into married life and divorce in the late 1800s。 The author provides the perfect amount of background history on the couple and their families to give an understanding of important relationships but not bog down the pace。 I became so invested in the people and their lives that I kept wanting to skip to the end to find the outcome of the trial!This was a great rea I particularly enjoy books about the 1800s and early 1900s so I was very excited to read STRONG PASSIONS。 This was an interesting look into married life and divorce in the late 1800s。 The author provides the perfect amount of background history on the couple and their families to give an understanding of important relationships but not bog down the pace。 I became so invested in the people and their lives that I kept wanting to skip to the end to find the outcome of the trial!This was a great read。 Highly recommend for history lovers。 。。。more

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